I've been thinking about this concept since Friday the 13th. Chanelle and I celebrated Vally Tines day early as usual on the 13th by going to the movies. We went to see He's Just Not That Into You.
In the movie the main character GiGi (who is parallel to who I am in regards to men) discovers that women usually place themselves in impossible relationships hoping it will work out. Why? Because someone told them a story about a woman who it actually worked out for.
Ex. "He will marry you eventually. My friend Becky dated this guy for years and one day out of nowhere he proposed."
"Just because he's married doesn't mean he won't leave his wife for you. I know someone who that happened to and he got a divorce a few months after"
Sounds crazy, maybe but I know women (including myself) who've been fooled into believing these fables. That men "change" or things will work out in your favor despite the odds that the chips are stacked against you.
Even if the folklore is true the discovery GiGi made was that those women are the exception. For most women it won't work out like that because majority of us are the rule NOT the exception.
The sooner you understand that the easier dating will become. Not so much of a hassle.
Movie Review for he's just not that into you: Fun feel good movie loaded with sarcasm & good advice. Even different scenarios of relationships from male & female perspectives.
Go see it,
Bluebelle
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